Resources

When Clara passed and as I work with families, I realize there aren’t a lot of resources out there that really understand the sudden loss of a baby.  I found groups for miscarriage and a couple of groups for parents that have lost much older children.  I found that neither of those groups were as helpful for me as they were for others.

Thank goodness Brianne sent us a care package from Lach’s Legacy!!  Her gift and then the “1st Annual Run for Their Lives!”,  held just 2 weeks after Clara’s passing, were what I needed to know I wasn’t alone in this.  I ran with a man who had lost his nephew several years ago.  He listened to my story while he encouraged me to keep running and finish.  Although I don’t know his name, when I feel overwhelmed I think of our conversation and how many times he encouraged me.  It brings a smile to my heart to know that a stranger took the time to help.

I am so thankful that Brianne continues to hold the “Run for Their Lives!” each year.  Her dedication to the event is amazing.  It is at the run that we get our family picture every year. We look forward to it!  Even though we are a ways from home, we will be back every June for as long as she keeps it going.  Thank you Bri for your love and support!!

There is another resource and community that I have found very helpful is the group of ladies who support each other online.  This amazing group isn’t really a group but is a great web of support when you need it.  Thank you to Tanya and Sara, the 2 very best ladies who chat anytime, anywhere, and help in so many ways!!!  Others who have touched my life include Lisa, Dana, Melinda, Michele, Melissa, Kari, Carrie, Kristi, Pat, Jeanie, and all those not mentioned that have shared their journey of losing a precious child.